Intimate lubricants: Truths and Myths

Did you know that lubricant is a must have during sex and greatly increases pleasure?

Intimate lubricants In recent times, they have ceased to be associated only with menopause and anal sex, and have become essential for many individuals and couples.

They serve to reduce vaginal dryness, facilitate penetration, or simply add a new dimension to pleasure with new olfactory and thermal sensations.

They offer a wide range of benefits by reducing friction and increasing lubrication, and can be used with or without a condom, with sex toys, to prolong the duration of intercourse...

Let's explore the different types available, their applications, benefits and tips to help you choose the right lubricant for you.

Myths Related to Lubricants

Myth1

They are for anal sex and menopausal women - it's false, anyone can benefit from using them, whether to reduce friction or to increase pleasure and add new sensations.

Myth 2

Use those who are not sufficiently aroused - it is false, insufficient lubrication is not synonymous with lack of desire, but may simply be related to hormonal factors, stress, medication use.

Myth 3

The more lubricated the better - it is false, you must use a sufficient and appropriate amount and reapply if necessary. Making everything too slippery may not be the best option.

Myth 4

I can use any- the right answer: is depends on the situation. Water-based lubricants are compatible with latex condoms and silicone toys.

Silicone-based lubricants, which are silkier and last longer, are ideal for mucous membranes that do not naturally lubricate, such as the anus, and for longer sexual intercourse.

Myth 5

Saliva can be used as a lubricant - this is false, saliva does not lubricate or reduce friction, and should not be used for this purpose.

Benefits of Using Lubricants

Increased Lubrication

In case of lack of natural lubrication, anal sex, masturbation.

Delay Ejaculation

It is not a treatment for premature ejaculation, but it can make friction less intense, reduce the hypersensitivity of the glans and reduce excitement, delaying ejection.

Lubricate the Condom

It can be useful when applied to the outside of the condom, to increase comfort for both partners, as when using a condom friction increases and this extra lubrication is welcome. It can also be applied inside the condom to reduce the man's discomfort, but in this case just a drop to avoid the risk of it coming loose during intercourse.

After Pregnancy

As women often experience greater vaginal dryness after pregnancy, it may be useful to use lubricant.

Menopause

With increased vaginal dryness, the use of lubricants is particularly useful, helping to avoid pain or discomfort.

Stimulation and Increased Pleasure

Lubricants can also be used for erotic purposes, enhancing stimulation and fantasy. There are hot, cold, aromatic effects and can increase libido and facilitate orgasm.

What Lubricant to Choose

There are basically two types of lubricants, water-based and silicone-based.

Water-based lubricants are the most widely used because they can be used with latex condoms and silicone toys. They imitate the natural sensation of the vagina, are usually well tolerated and do not cause irritation.  They do not leave a “sticky” feeling or stain fabrics. The disadvantage is that they are absorbed more quickly, making it necessary to reapply more frequently.

Silicone-based lubricants have a more velvety feel and longer duration of action, making them best suited for mucous membranes that do not naturally lubricate, such as the anus, or for longer-term sexual relations. They should not be used with silicone toys (they can be used with metal, glass or plastic toys).

They are waterproof and can be used in the shower. They are not absorbed as quickly and their effect lasts longer. They can cause allergies or irritation and stain clothes.

Oil-Based Lubricants are not safe to use with condoms as they may break. They can only be removed with soap and water. They are particularly useful for use in massages or masturbation.

Vaseline and other oils should not be used as lubricants as they are not specifically formulated for this purpose and present an increased risk of condom breakage.

Choose the one that is most suitable for your circumstances and the one whose smell, texture and “special effects” when used give you the most pleasure!

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